Dating Starts With You
AVAILABLE ON AMAZON, and coming soon to my products page.
I kept saying the same thing to client after client. Dating starts with you.
Dating Starts With You is a workbook for looking honestly at your own dating life. Whether you are dating for the first time, dating again after a divorce, coming back to it after years away, or simply tired of repeating the same patterns. Your twenties or your sixties. Any gender identity, any orientation, any relationship history.
Dating can be a genuine adventure. It can also be ghosting, unwanted photos, and the real vulnerability of opening up without knowing what you will find. This book does not pretend otherwise. It includes my own dating stories alongside the patterns I have watched people circle for years.
You will work through:
The patterns you inherited and the ones you chose
What your last three relationships were actually about
How to tell self-protection from self-sabotage
Boundaries that survive contact with a real person
What you will compromise on, and what you will not
There is nothing to fix. This is about recognizing your value and trusting your standards.
You are not half of a whole. A relationship is an addition, not a completion.
Thirty-three years of clinical work, written down so you can use it.
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